Boys and girls in America have such a sad time together; sophistication demands that they submit to sex immediately without proper preliminary talk. Not courting talk – real straight talk about souls, for life is holy and every moment is precious.

Jack Kerouac
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The author, S.S. Van Dine, is saying that when two people who love each other fall in love they must treat each other like they're important and not like a thing. Sex with someone you really care about is sacred and precious. You don't jump into it like you're just another person on the street. You have to take your time and speak to them before you have sex with them so that you can fall in love with them.

Source: On The Road

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